Rasco's Advice

Anonymous asked: so I met this guy at track, and we didn't talk face to face, but whenever I looked at him, I caught him staring. Then his friend added me on Facebook and told me that he was sort of interested in me. So the guy and I started talking through his school email but suddenly he said I couldn't email me anymore because his school found out that he was texting me.. I have his number but he told me not to text him on it but I already miss talking to him should I txt him? Or does he not like me anymore?

its hard to say whats really going on due to the circumstances,i cant tell you if he does or doesnt like you.for that something only he knows.whenever you do see him in person, just talk to him and try figure out if he’s still interested in you. the only thing i dont understand is  why his school wouldnt want him to not email or text you. unless he went to one of those  private strict schools. i understand you miss him,and i hope you get to talk to him soon.

Anonymous asked: my dad cheated on my mum and i cant forgive him.. but i still love him?

he’s your father, of course you’ll still love him,

i mean you may also hate him or be mad at him for cheating,(im so sorry by the way) but that feeling of love just in general remains.

Anonymous asked: So my best friend's brother (who is the same age as me) keeps flirting with me... I like him as a friend, but i dont like him in the way he likes me, which isnt exactly clear. How do I tell him to back off without hurting his feelings? I dont want him to think im assuming he likes me if you get what i mean, but I'm just not interested! Help please? X

if what you want, is for him to stop flirting with you,than you’re going to have to talk to him; and you seem like such a nice girl for wanting to letting him down easy. and you should,and how you go about that, is by simply telling him that its not him, its you. find a  way to tell him that you just dont like him in that way.

Anonymous asked: So this guy lives across the street from me and I just recently started talking to him, he is honestly one of the sweetest guys I've ever met. For the first time in a long time, a guy actually seems to be interested in what I have to say but I've only ever talked to him in person and not that often.. and when I try to talk to him on Facebook or something he's really awkward and stopsreplying. He always smiles and waves whenever I see him..I can't not think about him. I don't know what to do...

i would say that you should try and talk to him more in person, people act different when they talk behind  a computer screen, things arent the same,  and you can never really get that “real” connection with someone through facebook, and you can never know if he’s just busy and thats why he doesnt reply back; i mean you say the guy seems to be interested in you, and if that’s the case,then try talking to him in person whenever you see him, a simple hi can lead to a million conversations(:

Anonymous asked: I'm a freshman in highschool, girl;). I mean, I know it's hard to understand people in high school but I'm just wondering: if the boy I like wants me to make the first move& I want him to do it, are we always going to be stuck like this? Should I just suck it up and do it?

maybe he’s just afraid, scared or shy to  make the first move,but you’re right, if one of you guys doesn’t make a move, things will never go nowhere. if he doesn’t have what it takes to make a move,then i would say that you should give it a try(: 

Anonymous asked: I'm a 16 year old girl who has been trying to get over a guy for a while now. It's really hard sometimes, especially when I see his name, or things that remind me of him. I know he will never be into me & I want him to be happy, so I think it is best that I get over him. Do you have any suggestions on how to get over a guy? :)

i can relate to this, (with a girl of course) and moving on is probably the hardest thing in the world to do.there’s not a one thing you can do to get over someone, i guess you just have to make yourself believe that nothing could ever happen between you and him.and well just  stay busy and occupied all the time,and try to keep your mind thinking about other things besides him(:

Anonymous asked: Hi :) Okay, so there's two guys in my life right now. One guy says he's in love with me and has been asking me out for about a year but for some reason I can't bring myself to go out with him. And now, my guy best friend and I have feelings for each other and he gets really upset and jealous when the other guy talks to me or whatnot. I just don't know what to do.

well i mean it seems to me like you’re not that interested in the first guy;or are you? and well if you have feelings for your bestfriend,and he has feelings for you, are you afraid to go from a friendship to a relationship? just ask yourself ” who do i  picture myself being with. you deserve to be with someone who makes you happy.(:

Anonymous asked: Can a guy love a girl so much that even if she dumped him he would still wait for her for 2 years?

yes, i believe that if the guy truly loves her,then that his heart will wait for her. time doesn’t matter when it comes to real love.

Guy Advice

I’ve submitted this to another blog before but I like getting more than one opinion, so it might help even more to get your thoughts. So here we go:

There’s this guy I like but I don’t know him too well. We’ve only really talked like once before even though we’ve kinda been around each other before. Whenever I’m around him, I feel this spark inside, almost like it could be a mutual spark, you know? Like something just brings us together naturally. And that’s never really happened before for me.

Last time I saw him, my friend was on my left and he was across the room on my left as well. He looked right past her and immediately locked eyes with me and his eyebrows lifted for a split second and he smiled really big and mouthed “Hey!” & when we were waiting for our food (the whole group was together), he and a friend of his started a game and when I was trying to avoid playing because I was nervous and didn’t want to look dumb, he pointed me out and said it was my turn after everyone else had gone and I almost got away with not playing and I said, “Nooo” and he was like “Yes!” so obviously I had to lol

We took pictures w/our friends & he would wrap his arm around my waist & sort of pull me toward him almost as though he doesn’t want me to be close to anyone else but him. One time he sort of squeezed my waist. & the last time we hung out he kept a good amount of attention on me even when he was talking with a friend of mine & another person, not to mention his body was facing mine as well. Like, while he was telling the two people by us a story, he was in his seat with his whole body facing mine and he kept looking at me the most compared to the others. And there was a time where he was eating something and he deliberately got some on his face  while I wasn’t looking and when I turned around and noticed, he was already looking at me and it seemed as though he was hoping I’d laugh.

On top of all of that, when we’d talk it was like there was this real connection between us. It’s so hard to explain, I wish I could.

So does it seem like he likes me? I should also add that something confusing that happened is that when he left, he didn’t really say anything to me even though he did look at me before he was gone. I don’t know if maybe he was trying not to make it seem like he was playing favorites because there were other girls there or what, but yeah.

ANSWER:

everything you told me,tells me that this guy is interested in you. but about him liking you,that could go both ways,maybe he does,maybe he doesn’t. but all those signs, him pays more attention to you a lot,and trying to make you laugh, makes me think that he does like you,and that you should go for it, try to get to know him more,spend more time with him if you can.and  i know you’re probably waiting to see if he makes the first move, and i hope he does.cause  it takes a girl a lot of courage to do that.

one-perfectttloveeee asked: lovelovelovee youur adviceee ! ~ js. <3

thank you<3

Anonymous asked: you are baccccccccccccccccck :D

i am:D

Anonymous asked: Hey, so, I like this guy, and he likes me back, but because we're both graduating and going our separate ways in about a month, we decided not to date. Another friend of mine who doesn't know we like each other has recently been very touchy-feely to him and started flirting with him. The thing is, he's responding to it and letting her. My friends all say I should be angry and jealous, but I'm not. I've learned to detach myself from guys I like in order to prevent being hurt. Is this normal?

maybe since he thinks that nothing is going to happen between you two, he allows himself to let this girl flirt with him. and yes, its normal, i know lots of people who do the same,you’re just looking out for yourself, preventing yourself from having a broken heart.i just hope one day you do let a guy into your heart<3

Anonymous asked: (continued...) In January, stuff happened between Jorge and I & he cheated on his girlfiend with me. Ever since then, we get together and stuff happens. We both know that we have feelings for each other but since he has Miranda and I have Jesse, we don't know what to do... Also, I meant to ask anonymously but I clicked the wrong one. Can you answer anonymously please in a message or something? Any advice would be so helpful! Thank you.

i have to ask,  do you want to be with Jorge? and does he want to be with you? i mean your living a  life of lies,you’re only going to hurt the people you are with,when they find out.and the truth usually has a way of revealing itself. if you and Jorge want to be together, then you two should  consider ending  things the people you are currently with. they’ll probably feel hurt,but  why be with them,when you really want to be with somebody else.

Anonymous asked: Okay, I have no idea who you are, but I need advice, badly. I don't have enough character space to explain everything so I will have to break it up and submit the first half, then second. Okay? So. My name is Emma. I've been with Jesse for a long time but we're not together right now. Jesse also lives one hous away from me. My bestfriend, Jorge, is dating Miranda. Jorge and I have always had feelings for each other but nothing ever happened. (continued...)

ill answer on the other one.

Anonymous asked: Should I just leave it to destiny? Sorry that this is really long but you're such an amazing, sweet, loving guy and I need advice from a guys point of view.

i dont know what this questions is referring to. leave what to destiny?